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Someone Likes You? 3 Simple Things to Watch Out For to be Sure

Some of the biggest complaints about Singaporean guys is that they can be quite passive. On the other side of the spectrum, there are also complaints about girls being unapproachable. The reason behind all the complaining? Attraction! Well, we complain if we’re attracted to someone but there’s something that holds us back. A bit sad if you think about it but there’s a certain truth to it still. But it can be a different story if the person you like, actually likes you back. If you’re unsure about it, here are 3 things you can try to look out for.

In a laughing scenario

A person looks appealing when he/she smiles or laughs. This extends not just in attraction, but to all human interactions in general. That is why we tend to look at a person we are attracted to if they are smiling or laughing, because we enjoy seeing them in that moment.

Someone who likes you will also most likely look at you when he/she is laughing or smiling as a signal of interest. In a group setting where something funny is being shared, a person will almost always look at the person they are most attracted to or feel closest to.

How their friends act

When your friends know you like someone, you’ll never be able to contain the truth for longer. For some reason, people always enjoy teasing someone (and they do it pretty obviously) when the person they like is around, no matter how close they are as friends. This usually applies to guys though.

When it comes to girls, it can be the same and it can also be different. If a girl is with her group of friends, they will (also quite noticeably) let the girl know that your around.

Body language

If you’re having mixed ideas of someone being possibly attracted to you, watch their body language. When a person likes you, he/she will most likely lean towards you when you’re talking. Another sign is if the person removes physical barriers between each of you. If you’re to her left, a girl will move her handbag to her right so that there’s an open space between you, for example. Also, another reliable part to look is the feet. Someone who is attracted to you may point his/her feet towards you.

Though body language can be a great factor to observe if someone likes you, it can also be a double-edged sword. This is simply because body language can be misunderstood at times. A guy could be touchy if he likes you, but what if he’s naturally touchy with everyone else. There are still a lot of factors to take into account.

Activities You Can Do to Spend Your “Alone Time”

 Whether in person or social media, we are always looking to meet everyone’s expectations. But as you know, sometimes we need to take a step back and enjoy our “me” time. And here are some activities for you to do just that.

Cook

Learning to cook or learning a new recipe can be more fun if you try to do it by yourself. For one, you’ll be able to save yourself from the primary embarrassment of making a mistake, like overcooking rice or something. You’ll also be able to experiment on new recipes without being disturbed by others.

Read a book

Being able to read in complete silence without hearing other people’s noises can give you quite a wonderful time. On the flip side, you could also read out loud as if you were narrating the story yourself. Not only is it fun to put your own twist to the voices of the characters, you’re also giving your mind some exercise because you’re not only using your eyes this time, but also your mouth and ears.

Dance!

When there’s nobody else with you, of course you won’t be disturbing anyone if you put your favorite music on full blast (but consider your neighbors!). You can easily go and dance around the house to your favorite dance songs without worrying about being judged. Why will it matter if you’re a bit bad at dancing if there’s no one else to see?

Hit the karaoke

The thing about KTV is that it can be enjoyed individually just as much as with a group. Whether you’re a little embarrassed with your voice, or you just prefer going solo, go ahead and sing your heart out to Jay Chou’s and/or Stefanie Sun’s songs!

Go window-shopping

It’s no question that the malls around Singapore are quite known. So much so that shopping is even considered a hobby by many. Even if you don’t have much money, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go to the malls and have a little fun. 

Visit a museum

If you want to learn more about the history and culture of Singapore, then there’s no better place than the National Museum of Singapore itself. Both the History and Living galleries are incredible sights to see.

Take a hike

Bukit Timah Nature Reserve, Fort Canning Park, Pulau Ubin, and MacRitchie Reservoir are among the many parks and nature trails in Singapore. Taking a hike and having a date with nature can give you a time for stress relief and relaxation, hence making you calmer and keeping your mind fresh.

Try a new form of physical exercise

Cycling and jogging or common ways to exercise. Give yourself a challenge and try something new. Go gym climbing, boxing, fencing, swimming and etc. You never know, you might find a physical hobby that you’ll actually enjoy.